Life Change and the Seasons of the Year
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Susan_Kersley]Susan Kersley
When you make changes in your life you might wonder why you feel some sadness as though you were grieving. Just like mourning, letting go of the old to make room for the new is associated with a feeling of loss. So you might run through a gamut of emotions from sorrow to anger, from guilt to acceptance.
Seasons of the year are an excellent metaphor for what happens to you during change. Giving up the old life is rather like Autumn followed by Winter. Thinking of change in this way gives you the idea that even though during winter everything seems to be dormant and at first it is bleak until you realise that out of sight there are lots of things happening. These changes are ready to burst forth when Spring comes. Suddenly you see the new growing shoots which are the start of the new life or of the changes you may have initiated some time before and almost have given up on. Summer is when your new life is in full bloom. You will have achieved all or nearly all of what you set out to do. You will have got through your times of doubt and worries that it was all going wrong and you should never have started it. You will be happy that you goal has at last been reached.
Of course you may realise, with hindsight that you didn't take the most direct path to your goal. You may have taken a rather round about way to achieve something which perhaps someone could have told you was so much easier to achieve. However you did it the way which was right for you, and you will have had a massive learning experience as you journeyed towards your goal.
Don't wait for someone else to start- be pro-active yourself
Don't make assumptions about the effect you will have on others - talk to them about what you intend to do
Don't believe that nothing can alter unless something is changed by those who control 'the system'.
Big changes happen by something started by someone. It could be you. If one thing alters other things have to adjust too. Life is like a spreadsheet: when you change one thing, everything else changes too.
What could you do? What small step could you take towards living the life you want? What season is beginning for you right now?
Find out how to make changes. There are 15 ways in free report.from http://www.youcanchangeyourlife.co.uk
Susan Kersley coaches and writes for doctors http://www.thedoctorscoach.co.uk
Article Source: [http://EzineArticles.com/?Life-Change-and-the-Seasons-of-the-Year&id=4034511] Life Change and the Seasons of the Year
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Susan_Kersley]Susan Kersley
When you make changes in your life you might wonder why you feel some sadness as though you were grieving. Just like mourning, letting go of the old to make room for the new is associated with a feeling of loss. So you might run through a gamut of emotions from sorrow to anger, from guilt to acceptance.
Seasons of the year are an excellent metaphor for what happens to you during change. Giving up the old life is rather like Autumn followed by Winter. Thinking of change in this way gives you the idea that even though during winter everything seems to be dormant and at first it is bleak until you realise that out of sight there are lots of things happening. These changes are ready to burst forth when Spring comes. Suddenly you see the new growing shoots which are the start of the new life or of the changes you may have initiated some time before and almost have given up on. Summer is when your new life is in full bloom. You will have achieved all or nearly all of what you set out to do. You will have got through your times of doubt and worries that it was all going wrong and you should never have started it. You will be happy that you goal has at last been reached.
Of course you may realise, with hindsight that you didn't take the most direct path to your goal. You may have taken a rather round about way to achieve something which perhaps someone could have told you was so much easier to achieve. However you did it the way which was right for you, and you will have had a massive learning experience as you journeyed towards your goal.
Don't wait for someone else to start- be pro-active yourself
Don't make assumptions about the effect you will have on others - talk to them about what you intend to do
Don't believe that nothing can alter unless something is changed by those who control 'the system'.
Big changes happen by something started by someone. It could be you. If one thing alters other things have to adjust too. Life is like a spreadsheet: when you change one thing, everything else changes too.
What could you do? What small step could you take towards living the life you want? What season is beginning for you right now?
Find out how to make changes. There are 15 ways in free report.from http://www.youcanchangeyourlife.co.uk
Susan Kersley coaches and writes for doctors http://www.thedoctorscoach.co.uk
Article Source: [http://EzineArticles.com/?Life-Change-and-the-Seasons-of-the-Year&id=4034511] Life Change and the Seasons of the Year
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